10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is In Love With You

The sense of assurance that comes with knowing that your boyfriend loves you will give you peace. 

When you are in doubt, you tend to think about all sorts of negative things. However, if you knew to determine whether your man loves you or not, you will know your position in his life and the necessary action to take.

Love is not just something that is said to you. When a man says to you that he loves you, it has to mean more than just words from his mouth; it has to show in his actions and how he treats you. 

This is because love is felt from the heart, and it is bound to reflect in his actions one way or the other. It is also important to know that not all men are very expressive with words. Sometimes, in their masculinity, some men tend to be less eloquent, but do not be afraid, even when he is less expressive with words, some signs will show you that your boyfriend is in love with you.

He Is Always Ready To Make Sacrifices For You 

When a man loves you, he will be ready to make sacrifices for you, usually even without you asking. Love tends to reveal just how much we are willing to endure for one another, and for men in love, they go the extra mile for their women. 

This is why men try their best to help you out even when it is at the expense of their plans sometimes. If he is in love with you, he will handle your problems are his own, and he will try his best to help you out. 

However, if your boyfriend always avoids making sacrifices for you or he always comes up with excuses rather than helping you out with things, especially when they are within his power, he does not love you.

He Respects You And Defends You 

Whether in the presence of his friends or strangers, when a man is in love with you, he will respect you and defend you. Imagine being defended by your man, it feels great, and it gives a great sense of assurance. 

Men are very protective of the women they love, it is in the core of their nature. Sometimes he will even defend you when you are at fault. This is because he sees you as a part of him, and he will not be able to stand seeing you getting attacked or disrespected by anyone. 

Also, he will personally show you respect in every way possible. This is because he values you, and he sees greatness in you, so if your boyfriend constantly defends you and shows you respect, he definitely loves you.

He Forgives You Easily 

When your boyfriend is in love with you, he will find it easy to forgive you and to let go of things. There is no place for grudge when a person is in love. This means all issues that could cause a situation of grudge, or extended fights will be made to seem like minor issues because the influence of love reflects on all things. 

This is not only about forgiveness, but it also reflects on how a man apologize when there is a misunderstanding. Even though men sometimes do not like to apologize, when your boyfriend is in love with you, he will find it fairly easy to apologize to you because he loves you too much to care about ego.

He Includes You In His Plans 

One of the signs that men give when they are in love is including their partner in their plans. When a man is in love with you, he will make you part of his plans, and this will apply to his long term plans and near-future plans. 

For example, if he is thinking of changing jobs or taking a new job in a different state, he will talk to you about his plan and seek your opinion on the issue. 

Including you in his plans is a sign that he wants you to be a part of his future, and seeking your opinion in his present plans means he values your opinion. This is because loving you will make him plan his future with you.

He Always Finds A Way To Be With You 

When a man is in love with you, he will always want to be around you. As humans, when we are in love, we tend to grow fond of the person we are in love with, and we crave their presence around us as much as possible. 

This is precisely how it is for men when they are in love; he will make plans for you to go on dates or take a walk together and so many other things. This is because he is in love with you, and you are always on his mind. 

Sometimes he might offer to come to help you do things he knows that you can handle on your own. Sometimes he will even free up his schedule so he can get to see you. 

However, this is a bit tricky; there is a difference between a man that only wants to see you in his free time and a man that frees his schedule just to see you, so make sure you are not just an object of entertainment during his free time.

He Misses You When You Are Apart 

This is usually when he can't come to see you. There are times when we all get so busy; however, if your boyfriend can still think about you during his busiest moment, it means he is truly in love with you. 

It gets even better if he uses the next available opportunity to let you know that he is thinking about you and missing you, rather than ghosting on you for hours or days at a time. A man who is in love with you will always miss you when you are not together and will not be capable of ghosting you.

He Tries His Best To Make You Happy 

A man who is in love with you will make your happiness his priority. 

This will reflect on how he treats you, the things he says to you, and even the way he talks to you. When a man is in love, he will do everything within his power to make his woman happy. 

This also reflects on his preference sometimes. For the sake of the happiness of their women, sometimes, men change their preferences just so their women can be happy. So if you find out that your boyfriend is doing everything humanly possible to make you happy, then he is in love with you.

He Tries His Best To Maintain Frequent Communication With You 

If your boyfriend loves you, he will not find it difficult or unnecessary to communicate with you. Communication is very important in a relationship, and when two people are in love, it becomes so easy for them to communicate. 

A man who is in love with you will not choose to go days without texting you or calling you. This is because loving you means you will be on his mind always, and this will make him want to hear from you. So, there is no way he will ignore your messages or decide not to return your calls or suddenly ghost you for days. 

This will also reflect on his willingness to discuss issues with you. If your boyfriend is in love with you, he will be ready to talk to about everything that will make the relationship a successful one.

He Finds It Harmless To Spend On You 

Men love to be regarded as a provider, and this tends to become amplified when they are in love. A man who is in love will not see any problem in providing for you when it is within his ability. 

However, it would be best if you watched out for his attitude of provision and the extent of his provision. This is because some men provide for women so that they can control them. 

He Gets Jealous But Controls It 

Men tend to be very jealous when they are in love. Jealousy itself is not bad when handled with control and moderation. If you realize that your boyfriend is jealous of another guy you have been talking to, then he loves you.